Leo x Air Signs

Been on a rule with updates lately. Hopefully soon I will get around to fixing the blog, building a better archive, and going back to tag things. I started this whole mess back in '11 and a lot of the mechanics of this blog are embarrassingly archaic!

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Leo x Gemini - Light + Wind = Blur

The Good: Leos like a guy who is open about being into them, and Gemini crushes hard. There is a part of Gemini that secretly likes a man who will exert his power over him, and Leos love to exert. Leos who have gotten over themselves are usually sources of influence in gay social circles and have a kingdom of loyal friends. Gemini likes this because he likes to be among interesting people and gravitates to where the action is. There is a hint of a “daddy x son” relationship here, because Leo likes to spoil the Gemini guy. Geminis, for all their running around, love the idea of love and a Leo dude is very reciprocal and comforting to him.

The Bad: Obviously Leos like their lover's attention, but Gemini operates between two worlds, and when he isn't “present” a Leo can get restless. Leo's are also super territorial and Gemini's are super flirtatious, even when they aren't trying to be. This turns Leo from benevolent king into domineering dictator. A Gemini will not have it and is not afraid to complain openly about perceived mistreatment. Suddenly there is a badguy x goodguy dichotomy, and it's not a healthy one—mostly because from an outsider perspective, both Leo and Gemini are treating each other horribly. A more insecure Leo will feel as if his boyfriend doesn't care about him all because he's always off doing other things and in turn the Gemini will see his boyfriend as being selfish, self-centered, and thick-headed.

The Sexy: Leo men are boldly horny, and Gemini is the perfect plaything. Gemini likes a sex monster, and has no complaints about his Leo man's voracious appetite. Since Gemini's like roleplay and the idea of switching between domineering and submissive paradigms, an emotionally strong and powerful figure like Leo is right up his ally.

Leo x Libra - Light + Sky = Dawn

The Good: The Leo and Libra tango is quite the dastardly dance. A Libra and Leo will always get into a relationship because of two things: they both thought the other guy was hot. They fashion themselves as a power couple. At least in public. Behind closed doors, they are total dorks. Both may be closet nerds, and it's totally sweet that Libra has found another guy who shares in his love of old anime. These guys share a love of the finer thing as well as a love of bettering the world. Both of these dudes have always seen themselves as superheroes. But who is the Robin and who is the Bat Man? Well, Leo may rule the roost but secretly, Libra calls the shots.

The Bad: This tango may quickly turn into a game of manipulation. Leos, being "fixed" signs, are very content to preside over their court and be content that it not change. For a Libra, the scales quite often tip. This can lead to jealousy. Libras are wont to wander when they see something they like, and the Leo has every right to call him out on this BS. This also means that ground rules must be set. Libras are notorious at avoiding conflict, which also means avoiding problem solving. Leos hate to be the bad guy. In order to tackle an issue, both men must learn to suck it up and diplomatically assess their relationship flaws.

The Sexy: Libras often fall into a horrible habit of trying to overcompensate for their perceived insecurities, and so often will only take a dominant stance in the bedroom. With a Leo, this changes. Yes, Leos are good at taking it or dishing it, but with Libra they want him to feel comfortable experimenting with a passive role. Libra trusts Leo in this respect.

Leo x Aquarius - Light + Air = Rainbows

The Good: With Leo man's flare for the dramatic and an Aquarius dude's penchant for dancing to the beat of the oddest drum, this is a match that is built on two unique individuals finding someone in the world who jibes with their weird. Savy Leos have been burned by coming on too strong in the past, and so this lion will prowl most cautiously around an Aquarian of interest. No doubt though that the O.G. waterboy will be drawn to the Leo man's creativity and general sense of not giving the slightest of fucks. In social settings, they are the strange couple that everyone enjoys running into at parties. The Mr. and Mrs. Helena and Tim Burton of the gay world. And because each of them love to talk, Leo/Aquarius will never run dry in the conversation department.

The Bad: Ironically, it is their intrinsic uniqueness that will drive each other crazy. Leo watching his Aquarius man socialize at parties is like watching a train wreck in motion. Sometimes he is just TOO weird, or TOO drunk, or TOO awkward. Likewise, the Aquarius finds Leo an extreme of being too shy or being WAY too overconfident. These quirks will begin to chafe the other man. When it comes to affection, Leo wants to smother Aquarius in a blanket of love. But Aquarius is teflon and cannot stand being stifled with emotion. It will make him want to run the other way. A balance is needed here as both men operate at extremes.

The Sexy: Aquarius brings the strange to the bedroom, and Leo is willing to roll with it. Secretly he is also eager to be better at it than Aquarius. This is most pronounced in S/M roleplay. Leo takes to the dom role like a fish to water, and loves to make his Aquarius his slaveboy. But when the leather boot is on the other foot, Leo loves being put in his place by such a cold heel.

Leo x Fire Signs

First off, wanted to give a big, throbbing shot out to the Tumblr, Fuck Yeah Dudes Kissing! for supplying me with a bulk of these cute coupling photos.

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Aries x Leo - Fire + Light = Heat 

The Good: The soldier, whether he likes it or not, is often subservient to the desires of the king. Such is the case here. Aries generally follow Leo boys, usually without consequence. Aries appreciate Leo's ideas and joyful sense of living. They share a similar ideology (though when they don't they may often clash). When the Leo boy is down, the Aries friend may be the spark that gets him going again. And Leo is not afraid to point out the Aries occasional stupid decision making. Leos have a very strong sense of nobility, and this pomp and circumstance may often be difficult for the Aries to endure. In such a pairing, the Leo may end up being the more doting figure. The Aries is the badboy with the heart of gold who wants to shower his lover with affection, and since Leos love the attention, their eyes fill up with big, pink cartoon hearts at the very thought.

The Bad: ...Except when these two drama kings try to hog the spotlight. They need to learn that this town is big enough for the both of them and they should try and remember their dominance and authority is specific to a different skill set. For example, let the Aries boy plan out and send the invites to the party; let the Leo boy do the entertaining and glitzy stuff. Jealousy will also be a hurdle in this relationship, as either men are susceptible to this flaw for various reasons (mostly petty). These two boys need to remind themselves that they are two peas in a pod, cut from the same cloth, and a slew of other cliches basically stating that they are very similar to each other. Learn to share!

The Sexy: Dominance and submission serve as their repertoire. Aries boys love challenges, even the ones they lose. And losing to a Leo can be quite fun. It's a very steamy match-up, often with the over-the-top moaning and force of a porno film. Both of these men are “power” ____s, so it really doesn't matter who's taking it or giving it. Both men are enamored by the sheer intensity of each other.

Leo x Leo - Light + Light = Solar flare

The Good: But is there room for two kings of the jungle? That query may be up for debate. What attracts a Leo to another Leo, is that both men remind the other of...well...themselves. This is both a recipe for success and disaster. Because while Leo wants to share in his knowledge of X, Y, and Z with another mate, he doesn't what his man to be better at it than him. For a Leo x Leo relationship to work, both men need to be involved in different fields. Leo wants another king, but one who is most definitely ruling over another kingdom. No room for would-be-usurpers here, folks. If these two are different enough more than they are alike, this is a match with long lasting appeal.

The Bad: Being better at life is sort of the Leo model. Yes, Leos are TREMENDOUS humanitarians. They love to love. But they are also sensitive beings who need to feel as if their will is being respected. Leos can be incredibly jealous and usually don't like their partners to do anything that may betray this trust. Leos are typically down for the long-haul and are incredibly devoted, so anybody who threatens or abuses their trust will be exiled from their life. And remember, Leo is a drama king. Two Leos in a heated argument is conflagration of egos.

The Sexy: Oh but the sex? There's a place that needs no more improvement. Leos are masters of make-up sex, which can often be the stuff that holds the relationship together. Since Leos love the idea of being best at everything, they are usually quite versatile in their roles and can choose to swing either dom or sub at will. This is also a sexual relationship that promises an open minded approach to the bedroom from either man.

Leo x Sagittarius - Light + Electricity = Lightshow

The Good: Sagittarius men are bold and love the thrill of the hunt. The Lion does not like to be hunted, rather content to be predatory under his own terms. So when the Sagittarius makes his advances--as he is impatient--the Leo man may feel overwhelmed or that the Centaur is coming on way too strong way too fast. That is why this often such a rare match up, because it hardly ever gets goings. But if the Sagittarius is content to take his time, the Leo man is very receptive to someone so willing to show him affection. These two are great adventure partners. Leos like to talk, and Sagittariuses like to be told a good story. Simply put, the Sagittarius is fascinated by his Leo man, and a swagger that matches his own. You see, the Centaur is a character. He is a solitary power that rarely seeks to rule over others. The Leo is a noble and a king.

The Bad: Neither of these two men is particularly fond of being told what to do. Nobody pets Sagi in a corner. But likewise, Sagittarius can't expect Leo to bend to any of his whims, either. Leos feel betrayed when their partners do not listen to them. When it comes to jealousy, problems often arise. Leos have a bad habit of keeping their partners on short leashes (metaphorical or no) while flirting up a storm with any pretty prey that they see. Sagittarius love to flirt too, but are secretly fans of monogamy and honor. They do NOT suffer people with double standards. If this relationship is to work, they need to respect each other's power first and foremost.

The Sexy: For the first time, Sagittarius finds a man who can actually make him feel dominated. AND HE LOVES IT. Leo likes that Sagittarius is game for almost anything. These two feel like they are porn stars together and they love just how sexy their sex is.

'Tis the Season of: Virgo

Finally we reach the last of the 'Tis the Season mini-profiles. I hope you've enjoyed my cheeky GIFery.

Summer transitions into the fall, which in modern parlance transitions into the beginning of the new school year. Mmm...college boys.

But in a traditional sense, this is also the time of the harvest, which may be why the astrological sign of Virgo has been linked to plants and all sorts of good, crunchy earthyness. But while the Virgo man is symbolized perhaps by some nature-loving, carefree Adonis frolicking through the forest, he is, in actuality, a complicated fellow marked by an eye for the analytic and a penchant for organization.

Virgo boys are:
- Attentive
- Compartmental
- Critical
- Analytical
- Focused

But this rose has thorns, because Virgos can also be:
- Socially withdrawn
- Scathingly critical
- Obsessively compulsive
- Anal (not the good kind)
- Mean

Being the nature boy and the scientist in one sexy package, Virgos do have a lot to offer. A Virgo dude can help you with:
- Exploring the outdoors
- Helping you to unlock your talents
- Getting your shit together
- Organizing and planning
- Helping you rid yourself of unwanted qualities

If you want a guy who won't hold back, is sharp as a knife, and lives for "doing the right thing," then take a walk in the woods with Virgo.