Thursday, July 17, 2014

Cancer x Earth Signs

Cancer x Taurus - Heart + Earth = Stability



The Good: A fantastic match. Both of these men are homebodies in the sense that shelter and comfort bring them both security. They love to make meals and better yet, to eat them (both must be on top of their exercise and good health in this match). Together they will make a home for themselves, and this is why they are well-suited to marriage and companionship.

The Bad: Cancer's mood swings might send Taurus into a panic! Taurus likes emotions that are clear cut, but Cancer has several emotions that don't even have names in English. The good thing is, even when these two get moody, they prefer to do so by themselves. They must make sure that this does not translate into passive-agressive action. It is important for both men to discuss their feelings...even if some of them only have names in Swahili.

The Sexy: Taurus will take up the more active role in bed, but is comfortable with switching it up to Cancer's moods. Sex remains uncomplicated and intense.



Cancer x Capricorn - Heart + Metal = Virtue

The Good: This is a match that is all about sophistication. Both of these signs are class acts, Cancer emotionally so; and Capricorn for whom rationality is sexuality. This is a pairing that is fit for domestication, and both of these boys have their gumption and devotion to make it work. Capricorn is always practical when it comes to love, but Cancer is patient and knows what he likes. So does Capricorn. They are the same speed but different enough channels that their matching is a perfect compliment. As a unit, they are dad and dad. If they don't have children of their own, they'll be the ones taking care of the friend group, throwing the fancy house parties and making sure everyone is having a grand old time. These are two gentlemen rolling around town and living the good life.  

The Bad: A decline here can come in the form of neither of the two men being direct and vocal about their discomforts. Though both can put up with a lot, both will also internalize their problems until they boil over. These nitpicks and conflicts can come into bitter flavors, passive aggressive or resentfully submissive. The solution is the courage to confront problems head on. A little courage will do both of you some good.

The Sexy: These signs are pretty good at keeping others guessing their sexual appetites. Capricorn is the naughty librarian and Cancer is the closeted piggy. There will be slow and intense romance but there is plenty of submission and dominance to be had here as well. And both can dish and receive it.



Cancer x Virgo - Heart + Plants = Growth

The Good: Virgo and Cancer are two social men who nevertheless prefer to keep their true selves known only to themselves. In this match, they are comfortable sharing their most intimate secrets with each other. The Cancerian guy admires Virgo's smarm and smarts. The Virgo finds a faithful man who is in touch with his emotions in a very healthy way that most men fail to grasp. This is a pairing of shared interests and conjoined philosophies. Both love to love and find it as simple as that. A shame most of us always linger on the complications!

The Bad: But make no mistake, these two LOVE to argue. Cancer will of course be the first to shut down and give his Virgo man the silent treatment. Virgo will roll his eyes and back off but he will silently hold true to his criticisms. Virgos are about ethics and justice. Cancer is about emotions and instinct. In matters where these two approaches to life are at odds, so too will this coupling. Both will accuse each other of being controlling at some point or another, because both of these signs like to have a firm locus of control. Trust and communication will always have to be top priority with these two.

The Sexy: Neither of these two is straight up kinky-dungeon-man. But that said, they feel comofrtable exploring the lengths of their intimacies. Sex may start vanilla at first, but believe me, it's more Italian gelato than Ben and Jerry's.

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