The Good: Admit it. When you were young, gay, and a little bit naive, you always fantasized about meeting your Prince Charming; your teenage dream. Then you grew up and realized that dating was complicated, frustrating, and occasionally soul crushing. This match disproves reality, because Cancer and Libra, at their cores, both want "true romance." Needless to say, this is a match that sticks. Cancer is loving, warm, and providing; Libra is romantic, fun, and loves being in a relationship. The balance (no pun intended) is perfect. Cancer can ground Libra from their flightier tendencies. Libra can ensure that Cancer can come out of his shell and be social.
The Bad: The downside to being around each other all the time is....you're around each other all the time. Libra will eventually need personal space. Cancer also needs to learn to respect his love's personal property. More than this, Libra, always cursed with the perpetual mentality of grass-is-always-greener, needs to realize that he will never have his "perfect" match, and that he would be a fool to give up a man as devoted as Cancer. At the same time, Cancer needs to learn that there is no such thing as affection and love "on tap." Libra's can be distant, but this is not always a sign of negativity or trouble in paradise.
The Sexy: Here, the keyword is foreplay. This pairing does not just get down to the nitty-gritty. There needs to be mood. Most definitely music.
Cancer x Gemini - Wind + Emotions = Ecstasy
The Good: This is a very social and dynamic match. Cancer and Gemini both navigate the gay world with relative ease, each one calling home to their own special skill set. Cancers are emotional and charismatic with friends who come to their defense. They usually roll with other romantics. Gemini on the other hand takes care of his own, is more aggressive and tends to hang out with the bad boys and other sources of gossip (even if he does not realize it/admit it). Their attraction then is dynamite stuff, at least at first. Everyone opens up to a Cancer, but Gemini feels like his intellect and scattered emotions are finally understood by someone. Cancer sees the romance and creativity in Gemini. Often they are attached at the hip.
The Bad: Unfortunately, this attachment can prove fateful. To their friends, everything may seem like paradise but that's because Gemini and Cancer are very good at P.R. Their conflicts come in cycles, since both of these signs are prone to mood swings. Cancer hates how detached Gemini can often be, wanting to go solo and such. Gemini finds Cancer to be clingy. Worse, they feed on their own drama.
The Sexy: In the boudoir, Cancer brings out the emotional aspect to typically mischievous Gemini Sexual roles often do not matter in this match, since either is comfortable with taking on fantasies and learning about new sexual aspect of themselves.
Cancer x Aquarius - Heart + Air = Calm
The Good: Cancer is always drawn, as a moth is to a flame, to the bad boys, the rogues, the outsiders. It is no wonder then that an Aquarius man should eventually enter into his sphere of knowing. Aquarius sees Cancer as being cute and fun, but obviously Cancer wants something more. Aquarius is Teflon and Cancer wants to be the glue on the macaroni art of his relationship picture. This mindset between them both will NEVER work. This is a relationship that needs to be built on mutual interests and mutual respect. Because, deep down, Cancer isn't so different than Aquarius is. He is a closeted philosopher with big and bright ideas. A humanist to the core. If he can prove this cerebral quality to Aquarius, while not coming on too strong, then this relationship can work. It's all about checking yourself.
The Bad: It is a tough sell. Cancer does not get his Aquarius guy's friends. Aquarius gets frustrated that Cancer turns into a wallflower in these social settings (and if it's Aquarius, these settings could be drum circles, slam poetry readings, LAN parties, or Burning Man). And Cancer is always asking "Why won't he pay attention to me? ME! MEEEE!!!!" The solution to both of these problems is in taking risks. If Aquarius can plan a fun little movie night in, mayyybe Cancer can muster up some courage to go out and be seen with his guy.
The Sexy: Here's the kinky little twist. This match means that both of these men are willing to push the envelope in bed. This means S/M. And believe it or not, these guys are both willing to play the role of the switch with each other.
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