Aries x Fire Signs

Aries x Fire Signs

It is often believed that elements are often the best amongst their own element. This is both true and false. Two of the same element mean that their very natures are similar, and hence, compatible with each other. The downside here is that two men of the same element can only compliment each other, not temper, improve, or balance. Nevertheless, Fire x Fire is a combination that typically does extraordinarily well with each other.

Aries x Aries - Fire + Fire = Explosion  

The Good: Most definitely a Riku and Sora type of friendship at first (and if you catch that reference, please marry me). As friendly rivals, two Aries gayboys have a brotherly bond. They may fight, they may be stupid, and they may try to outwit each other in matches of machismo. Yet at the end of the day, their friendship is one of valor and an inseparable bond. Their frank honesty and openness for new experiences means that, if they truly fancy each other, they will have a very truthful and open relationship. They are both impassioned young men with a definitive drive and desire to challenge the world. If they are on the same page, this will be a good match. However, they must take caution in restraining their impulsive energy. They will challenge each other to achieved new heights, but they will also give 100% into a relationship.

The Bad: They may clash and fight, as they are both born under the sign of the warrior. These fights could be potentially disastrous, because Aries boys don't know when to back down. One will have to succumb to the other's whims or bad decision making, whether they like it or not. Cut this bad blood off at the pass by being open and honest with each other. Tap into the innocent core of the Aries soul and remember that you are both fighting for the greatest of prizes: love.

The Sexy: Things burn up in the bedroom rather quickly. Since Aries love intense, energetic sex, they will have found a very compatible sexual partner. They must take care to remember that whoever bottoms (and I recommend switching it up) this does not co-notate a position of submissiveness and they should not be ashamed or de-masculinized to switch it up for their boyfriend. At some point, these two boys should discuss the possibility of an open relationship, as all fire-signs are plagued by the desire for new experiences. If this is not ideal, then the two Aries boys in this equation may want to be more open-minded to having threesomes with third partners. As always exercise safe sex practices.

Aries x Leo - Fire + Light = Heat 

The Good: The soldier, whether he likes it or not, is often subservient to the desires of the king. Such is the case here. Aries generally follow Leo boys, usually without consequence. Aries appreciate Leo's ideas and joyful sense of living. They share a similar ideology (though when they don't they may often clash). When the Leo boy is down, the Aries friend may be the spark that gets him going again. And Leo is not afraid to point out the Aries occasional stupid decision making. Leos have a very strong sense of nobility, and this pomp and circumstance may often be difficult for the Aries to endure. In such a pairing, the Leo may end up being the more doting figure. The Aries is the badboy with the heart of gold who wants to shower his lover with affection, and since Leos love the attention, their eyes fill up with big, pink cartoon hearts at the very thought.

The Bad: ...Except when these two drama kings try to hog the spotlight. They need to learn that this town is big enough for the both of them and they should try and remember their dominance and authority is specific to a different skill set. For example, let the Aries boy plan out and send the invites to the party; let the Leo boy do the entertaining and glitzy stuff. Jealousy will also be a hurdle in this relationship, as either men are susceptible to this flaw for various reasons (mostly petty). These two boys need to remind themselves that they are two peas in a pod, cut from the same cloth, and a slew of other cliches basically stating that they are very similar to each other. Learn to share!

The Sexy: Dominance and submission serve as their repertoire. Aries boys love challenges, even the ones they lose. And losing to a Leo can be quite fun. It's a very steamy match-up, often with the over-the-top moaning and force of a porno film. Both of these men are “power” ____s, so it really doesn't matter who's taking it or giving it. Both men are enamored by the sheer intensity of each other.

Aries x Sagittarius - Fire + Electricity = Energy 

The Good: This is typically an amazing pairing. My parents (albeit heterosexual) were this combination. This is because the Aries and Sagittarius match means these two boys both support and compel each other. They are both impulsive men for certain, and this is where they may often need to check themselves. The Aries boy is pure fire and energy, perfect fuel for the Sagittarius guy. In tern, the Sagittarius is always willing to be the perfect adventure companion. He also tends to be the brains of the operation, much more cerebral and calculating than his Aries boy. This role also means that the Sagittarius boy is the one who pulls the Aries back from his too-often reckless decisions. The Aries does not mind. Their values and goals are very much in line with each other.

The Bad: Burn-out is often the downfall in this relationship. A deadly pitfall is the fact that, while Aries x Sag guys are always compatible on the surface, it may not be so below. The Sagittarius optimist is always too eager for a relationship. The Aries boy sees a new boy-toy and assumes he's in love. While these two will never really argue (both being too open and understanding of each other for that) their desires may drive them apart. Their lives, or at the very least their values, must be in aligned with each other for this to work. They must also not fall pray to jealous of one another. Since they both think they're the best, they cannot make the other feel less important. They must support each other's strengths and be understanding of their weaknesses.

The Sexy: A Sagittarius boy has the sexual inventiveness and openness of a Bangkok hooker. The Aries, then, sees his boys body as a playground, or even a laboratory to concoct new sexual experiences. The Sagittarius boy is a lover of movement and muscles, or even just the body in general. The Aries loves to show his off. Both men will crave new experiences rather quickly, yet the Sagittarius guy is always willing to shake things up a bit. The Aries, always worried of harming his lover, must keep in mind that his Sagittarius lover is not a gentle flower, but a rollicking cowboy up to any physical endurance test. He likes to be taken to the limit after all. The Aries should not be afraid to push the envelope.