Sunday, August 4, 2013

Gemini X Fire Signs


Gemini X Sagittarius = Wind + Electricity = Shockwave (Opposite Sign Bonus!)

The Good: Opposites attract, as they say, but here's the ting about these two. The Scholarly Centaur and The Warrior Twins aren’t so different from each other at all. Though they stand on opposite sides of the zodiacal wheel, the excellent astrological reference Sextrology describes them as being “different octaves.” Both are about interacting with other on a global scale—Centaur prefers abroad and Gemii prefers local. As friends and lovers they get along famously, both having a vast knowledge and interest in many subjects (artistically ad culturally mostly). They love to get out ad about and go on adventures, quests, and missions of dering-do. As lovers, they seem more like best of friends who one day just said: “Hey, why not?”

The Bad: Gemini boys ca be infamous for their societal critiques, not really caring about offending anybody to get their message across. Sagittarius, while blunt, likes to take a more considerate approach. This can lead to clashing and arguments between the two. Also, Gemini boys are hard to pin down, and are always of two minds. Sagittarius is far too impatient for these games, liking a challenge but not liking whether or not he has really won his prize yet. He is always of one singular goal—as vast and varied as his goals are. At any given time, a Gemini dude may have up to 8,000 goals at once, and sometimes those change with his temperament. These two need concrete communication and must come to decisions as a unit if they want to avoid any conflicts.

The Sexy: Sagittarius likes a naughty or wily boy, and typically not someone who will just lay there and writhe around seductively. Activity is essential, regardless of their sexual roles. Gemini is willing to do everything and anything with a gusto that Sagittarius has not seen in most of his partners. The challenge for them is to experience making love on an emotional level as most of the time, even if monogamous, their sexual encounters feel like one-night stands.    


Aries x Gemini = Fire + Wind = Wildfire

The Good: That sound you're hearing is a Gemini and an Aries causing trouble. These two boys feed off of each other like wind sweeping over a raging fire. It's eternal fuel, but it's also chaotic. And yet in this chaos, there is harmony. Gemini is quick-witted and opinionated. So is Aries, but he's more in your face about it. Both of these boys share a love of activity and outrage. They get on each other's nerves in the best way possible. Gemini is there to provide communication to the othewise “surface-only” Aries. The Gemini guy does it in a way he knows Aries will understand, so he gets what his Gemini boyfriend is about. Generally, the Gemini guy is always on board with Arie's action and socializing. This is where these two thrive, the social scene. To others, their romantic relationship may seem chaotic or superficial. Really though, it's just that they are constantly flitting around spreading gayery and mirth. Mwah!

The Bad: Gemini is known to operate in two modes of thought whereas Aries doesn't really do much thinking at all. At least, not in the same way Gemini does. An Aries is very rah-rah traditional male and may not take to kindly to the Geminian flirt-socializing that he so often does. Arie's faults lies in his inabillity to comprehend the, let's face it, incomprehensible Gemini mind. He may understand one twin, but sees no reason for the other. Conflict may also arise in the friend circle, since neither men are good about weeding out bad influences. These two men must keep good friends close and be suspicious of their enemies and naysayers/

The Sexy: The sex is fun and free, just like this match-up. Gemini will try anything twice and an Aries likes having a partner who will be on board with his brusque sexuality. This makes them a fun living couple who will switch it up. Since Gemini is two men for the price of one, Aries will enjoy playing with the dominant and submissive change-ups.


Gemini X Leo = Wind + Light = Blur

The Good: Leos like a guy who is open about being into them, and Gemini crushes hard. There is a part of Gemini that secretly likes a man who will exert his power over him, and Leos love to exert. Leos who have gotten over themselves are usually sources of influence in gay social circles and have a kingdom of loyal friends. Gemini likes this because he likes to be among interesting people and gravitates to where the action is. There is a hint of a “daddy x son” relationship here, because Leo likes to spoil the Gemini guy. Geminis, for all their running around, love the idea of love and a Leo dude is very reciprocal and comforting to him.

The Bad: Obviously Leos like their lover's attention, but Gemini operates between two worlds, and when he isn't “present” a Leo can get restless. Leo's are also super territorial and Gemini's are super flirtatious, even when they aren't trying to be. This turns Leo from benevolent king into domineering dictator. A Gemini will not have it and is not afraid to complain openly about perceived mistreatment. Suddenly there is a badguy x goodguy dichotomy, and it's not a healthy one—mostly because from an outsider perspective, both Leo and Gemini are treating each other horribly. A more insecure Leo will feel as if his boyfriend doesn't care about him all because he's always off doing other things and in turn the Gemini will see his boyfriend as being selfish, self-centered, and thick-headed.

The Sexy: Leo men are boldly horny, and Gemini is the perfect plaything. Gemini likes a sex monster, and has no complaints about his Leo man's voracious appetite. Since Gemini's like roleplay and the idea of switching between domineering and submissive paradigms, an emotionally strong and powerful figure like Leo is right up his ally.


Saturday, July 27, 2013

Gemini X Air Signs



Gemini X Gemini = Wind + Wind = Tornado

The Good: Like two college seminars going on at once the conversation that takes place between two Gemini men is dense, quick, and heated. Every twin wants to find their other half, but remember that a conversation between two Geminis is a conversation between four people. There is nothing wrong with this of course, because two Geminis see the identical attitudes in each other. If it's an even better match, they will see the differences as well and get excited that they have found the other side of their coin. Chances are, their shared interests will split into divergent paths that the other Gemini will find new and exciting to tread on. Not many can keep up with these two. They can barely keep up with each other!

The Bad: Brothers can also make the most petty of rivals, and two Geminis can become quite jealous of each other quite rapidly. This is especially true when it comes to young male Geminis, who are often super quick and blunt to the point of offense as well as tremendously flirtatious. Though Geminis are not as inherently duplicitous as they are often accused of being, a male Gemini rarely handles anger with tact. Friendly competition can turn into a bitter feud if they do not discuss their feelings openly and with regard to each others differences.

The Sexy: It's a whirlwind in bed too. Gemini boys like to be naughty, and with each other they don't mind getting down and dirty (and quick too). Though a Gemini gay man can be quite kinky (the Marquis DeSade was a Gemini) he is often too focused on quick and rough sex than intelligent and slow sessions. Both Geminis will need to cool their heels (as well as a few other parts of their anatomy) if they don't want it to get boring super quick.


Gemini X Libra = Wind + Sky = Turbulence

The Good: Being endowed with a great wit, this is a pair that rolls as a couple of bon vivants. Libra boys always try to emulate the boy-body persona (often to compensate for their innate “lightness”) but in Gemini he has actually found the wily badboy he's always desired. Gemini isn't a bad boy really, but he is naughty and fast, and he likes that Libra is so sophisticated, smart, and into a wide-array of subjects. Both of these men are very playful and funny, and they like to show this to the world. A dynamic duo, everyone ends up swept up in their passions.

The Bad: Sadly, not only are these two notoriously indecisive, but they also are weird when it comes to sex and jealousy. Though Geminis are often accused of having a wandering eye, a Libra will openly flirt (and worse) with other boys if he's feeling like Gemini isn't paying enough attention to him. Geminis are very distracted and not entirely forthright with their emotions. Libras do not like to show their cards, and hide behind coyness. All is fine until these two aspects come to a boiling point. In fights, both Gemini and Libra can be violently bitchy with each other.

The Sexy: Both of these men like to experiment. And how! This is one couple that is typically open to having a third party every now and then, and they often get off on the idea of choosing out their third partner as a couple.



Gemini X Aquarius = Wind + Air = Breeze

The Good: Oh man, air and wind, two ephemeral elements. How does a match like this work out? Surprisingly enough, it does more often than it doesn't, but the rules of the game are unique. Both men are good at being “detached” but at the same time genuinely love being in each others company. These two seem more like friends with benefits than lovers, and often—not wanting to put a label on things—this is very much the case. But what's wrong with dating your best friend, right? Especially when both of you are interested in...well...almost everything.

The Bad: Arguments seem like U.N. Summits, being so unheated and passive that they can last for hours with no real resolution. See, Gemini can TRY to get mad at Aquarius, but Aquarius is emotional teflon for the most part. Also, neither of these two have established anything. Geminis like to run with the wind and Aquarius is content to float in the air, so it can be very hard for either of these men to find a grounding force in each other.


The Sexy: There is a lot of talking and communication going on in their sex life, that's for sure. Aquarius is up for anything and Gemini likes to explore. More action than thought is often encouraged with this pairing in bed.

Wednesday, June 5, 2013

Taurus X Water Signs


Taurus X Scorpio = Earth + Ice = Glacier (Opposite Sign Match-Up Bonus!)

The Good: Scorpios and Tauruses both like their material possessions because they are empowered by a sense of ownership. This can also translate to the love of a certain band, a movie, or anything they feel in their heart is “theirs.” This commonality is often what brings them closer, though these two are also very sensual signs. If they don't just have a one-off affair, these two readily desire companionship and true romance. Both financially responsible creatures, they also enjoy luxuries and lavish romantic celebrations: dinners, spa visits, vacations.

The Bad: But Dear Lord can this be an awful match if something goes wrong. Being the two most possessive signs in the zodiac, if jealousy should ever arise between them, it can be bad. And we're not just talking star-crossed lovers here, oh no. A bad Bull x Scorpion combo is more “Alien versus Predator” than “Romeo and Juliette.” The anger of a Taurus is truly terrible and the cold, vengeful side of a Scorpio is the only thing worse than that. There won't just be fights, there will be “Game of Thrones” level treachery and backstabbery. A Scorpio does not want to be controlled; a Taurus always wants what they deserve is theirs. Selfishness will both be their undoing.

The Sexy: *cough* Well then. Now that we have that out of the way...Scorpios and Tauruses enjoy more romantic than raging sexual pastimes. Taurus typically likes being a love-object, regardless of their sexual roles. Scorpio just wants to feel intense emotions.  


Taurus X Pisces = Earth + Water = Ocean

The Good: Taureans are relatively laid-back creatures unless something has destabilized their mood. Pisces are free-flowing characters navigating a sea of emotions. This match works if both men are fairly calm and stable individuals. Taurus aren't ones to express their emotions loudly, which is okay because Pisces is used to detected them. Since both of these signs are typically involved in arts and music, there is plenty of common ground. The Taurus guy enjoys the Pisces guy's mellow demeanor and affectionate nature, while the Pisces guy enjoys the fact that Taurus remains grounded in his.

The Bad: A disconnect arises when Taurus fails to grasp Pisces' needs, which can be tricky since sometimes Pisces doesn't even know what he needs. Pisces can often be good at emoting, but not communicating his emotions--living inside his head as he is wont to do. Taureans can find it difficult to express their feelings directly, which bothers Pisces.

The Sexy: Pisces' unlocks a more emotional side to sex that Taurus had not yet experienced before. In this match, it is the Pisces who adds fuel to the fire. Their love-making sessions will never be rushed.



Taurus X Cancer = Earth + Heart = Stability

The Good: A fantastic match. Both of these men are homebodies in the sense that shelter and comfort bring them both security. They love to make meals and better yet, to eat them (both must be on top of their exercise and good health in this match). Together they will make a home for themselves, and this is why they are well-suited to marriage and companionship.

The Bad: Cancer's mood swings might send Taurus into a panic! Taurus likes emotions that are clear cut, but Cancer has several emotions that don't even have names in English. The good thing is, even when these two get moody, they prefer to do so by themselves. They must make sure that this does not translate into passive-agressive action. It is important for both men to discuss their feelings...even if some of them only have names in Swahili.

The Sexy: Taurus will take up the more active role in bed, but is comfortable with switching it up to Cancer's moods. Sex remains uncomplicated and intense.