Sunday, August 17, 2014

Cancer x Water Signs



Cancer x Cancer - Emotions + Emotions = Instinct

The Good: Oftentimes the only solution for an emotional being is another emotional being. As one might deduce from the Cancerian way of latching on to those who are alike, this is one of the same-sign pairings that works. As both of them intimately understand the need to be needed, they treasure their romance and act to preserve their partnership. Though courtship may start slow as to not risk scaring away a "good thing," but soon they are diving head first into boyfriend land. Since both have a fairy-tale wish for romance (even if they won't admit to it) they are keen on making their fantasies into reality. They are always together (which can be problematic as you shall soon find out). Both understand each other's traumas, especially when it comes to family problems. They seek to heal each other.

The Bad: Unfortunately, too much time spent in a world of one's making can often lead to social stagnancy. These two guys need to learn to get out of the house once and awhile, and beyond that, learn to not be so attached to the other's hip all the time. There is such a thing as too much as a good thing, and even being around each other too often can lead to petty fights and squabbles. They also need to be able to trust the other partner, as both of them have been hurt (perhaps numerous times) by other boy's in the past.

The Sexy: The trust that they bring to the relationship just as easily makes its way to the bedroom. Both of them are open to taking on new roles and positions. Still, their sexual compatibility is at it's best when they are simply making love.



Cancer x Scorpio - Emotions + Ice = Fortitude

The Good: Both of these boys are born under signs with hard shells. But while Cancer seeks affection and protection, Scorpio is more of an impenetrable fortress. Cancer is defense, but Scorpio is retaliation if need be. For two men with hearts so guarded, it's a luxury to find someone else for whom they can open up to and feel safe doing so. Scorpio will generally take the more active approach, but the ball is really always in Cancer's court. They find that they connect when it comes to interests and bond over their emotional trials and tribulations. Word of warning: Scorpios do not like to play games (unless they are the players) and so Cancer should avoid his usual scuttling around the topic (in this case, relationship). At the same time, Scorpio must take care to be more sensitive to his partner.

The Bad: The reason for the above caveat is because Cancer and Scorpio have a great potential to damage each other, even when they just have flat out great potential. These signs love to feel out their feelings, but when both of them are as guarded as they are, the tango can diverge quickly from sexy to exhausting. They need to communicate what they want and where they are at. This is especially important to the Scorpio, because he likes to know what's going on at all times. Cancer would take care not to be wishy-washy. Even if it's negative news, most stable Scorpios would appreciate hard truths than convenient deceptions.

The Sex: You'd think this one would be simple: Scorpio = dom, Cancer = sub. But such is not always the case. These two actually prefer Romance-novel sex most of the time. Sure they can fit a kink in here or there, but for two men so committed to their emotions, the raw and beautiful power of sexuality is surely enough for them most of the time.



Cancer x Pisces - Emotions + Water = Thirst

The Good: The thirst has never been so real. From the moment they lay eyes (or other body parts) on each other, Cancer and Pisces know that they wanted this dude. Each of them has a magnetic draw, and the gay boys all know it. When they are drawn to each other, it's a sexy and dangerous time. Both of them are really into their emotions and personal indulgences. They are attracted to sexuality and the unspoken desire between two individuals. Even if they are in different places in life, the connection between these two is very strong.

The Bad: Ah, but here's the catch with these pieces of seafood. Cancer is in touch with his emotions but he's not always a hippie. With Pisces, there is always the sense of the anti-establishment with him, even if he's a wolf-in-Capitalist's clothing. Cancer can come out of his shell, but it is hard for Pisces to come out of his head. He needs to be able to communicate his needs better, especially when it comes to sex. Cancer of course gets moody when he has been mistreated, and thus the vicious cycle commences between the two.

The Sexy: They are each other's bad boy. If there's one thing it's healthy to be addicted to, it's sex with your significant other. Roleplay especially is an item of interest that may come into play in this pairing.